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Abortion: The unspoken topic in our churches

Somewhere in the world, in this moment, a Christian woman is desperate. She is thinking about having an abortion, she is struggling with her situation, the circumstances in her life and the Holy Spirit. She knows that God hates abortion, it is killing one of His beloved children.

This woman is a member of God‘s family, and probably a member of a church family. Athough that is the case, she feels alone, seperate from other brothers and sisters and far from God. We as Christians in a church have the duty to help women in these situations. We have to know that this situation is more common than we may think it is (take a look at this report). We should offer support and perhaps a help center, within the church, where ladies can be honest and real and receive practical and financial help, as well as counseling from the surrounding fellowship. If these women know that there will be help in their daily situations, like baby-sitters, finances, somebody to talk etc., they may decide against having an abortion. This type of set-up will be an expense for your church, but it will rescue lives and offer priceless help for single mothers and unprepared parents.

That young life is from God! And God is their god!

 “You have been my guide since I was first formed…from my mother’s womb you are my God” Psalm 22:10-11.

More bible passages that encourage a pro-life position on abortion

Unwanted pregnancy from rape

If a baby is conceived from rape, it is still life from God and has the right to life. Today there are so many people who cannot fall pregnant and have a deep desire to have a child. For them, it can be a blessing to adopt this baby. We, as the church, have to encourage women with unwanted pregnancies to still give birth to their babies, without too much pressure. We are not in her situation, so we should refrain from judging them as that is not helpful, especially after rape. If the pregnant mother receives support, help and encouragement through positive words, prayers and practical help, yet she still decides to abort, we are not to judge her, she is still a child of God, a sinner like you and me. Her situation is difficult and you cannot understand her struggle.

For pastors, be aware that there may be women in your church who have had an abortion and are alone in their struggle. This is the case because abortion is often a topic that is taboo within a church setting. Your church members should know that they are welcome to approach you and receive help, love and counseling that is free from condemnation and judgment. These people already know that what they have done, (or are considering doing) is sinful, they know this by looking at God’s Word and through the Holy Spirit who is our conscience, but they also know that they are weak and need help.

To make an effort to prevent abortion, your church will benefit by including this topic in your church agenda and having a team that focuses on helping women in need and working to educate the youth in your community. A good idea would be to invite women who have experienced an abortion and ask them to share their experience and encourage a pro-life approach.

Why does my toddler scream?

http://www.babycentre.co.uk/a1040566/what-to-do-when-your-toddler-screams

Why does my toddler scream?
Believe it or not, your toddler’s volume isn’t turned up high to annoy you, but because she’s full of energy. She’s exploring the power of her voice, and experimenting with what she can do with it.

And why does she always let rip when you’re at the supermarket or the museum? It’s because there’s a lovely echoing effect when you scream in big open spaces!

Some toddlers scream whenever they want their parents’ attention. It’s their way of saying, “Hey, look at me!” Others scream when they want something they can’t have, such as a biscuit or a friend’s toy. In that case, the shrieking means, “I want my way. Give it to me now!”

What is the main point of a wedding?

What do you think?

Of course, it has to be a day where my best friends, my family are together with us. We want to share our special moment with our beloved once. Beside that often Christians and non-Christians think that everything has to be perfect on this special day: The location, the weather, the food, the music…..

It has to be such a great experience for the guests that they should leave the wedding with the thought: Woooow, that is the best wedding I’ve been to 🙂

But, is that the main point of a wedding?

Is it that you and your spouse are dedicating the rest of your lives to each other under God?

If you agree and if you are not married yet, because you thought you need money to get married. Then, you should think about your decision. It can be a great day with paper plates, bring and share food, musicians from the church etc. (It is very easy to do a wedding on a budget)

The main point of a wedding is making a commitment to each other in front of God, your family and friends. That in itself is enough.

This day is so exciting because God has given you a special person who loves you and only YOU!

Should we use In-vitro fertilisation?

Some Christian couples wait for years to fall pregnant, yet they suffer when they do not get that positive test signal on a pregnancy test. This challenges their faith and their Christian journey and many of these couples consider in-vitro-fertilization as a God-given technique.

Let us take a closer look at what In-vitro-fertilization is and what the Bible has to say about it:

What is in-vitro-fertilization? In-vitro fertilisation is the process of joining a sperm and egg together outside a woman’s body, then placing the fertilised egg, or zygote, in the woman’s body so that she can fall pregnant. The problem is that the doctor does not fertilise one egg, but many eggs are fertilised. These eggs are grown and stimulated through hormone therapy. This great article from the Ministry Magazine will educate you on how the process works, what the Bible says, how the health of the woman is affected, and why it is a negative process that should be avoided.

I wish for you that your dream of starting a family will become a reality, whether with biological children or through adoption. May God guide you and carry you through this challenging time.

P.S. A great help for you if you are struggling to fall pregnant, is this product; it increases your chance of naturally falling pregnant up to 80% and for adoption you will find great information at this Christian organisation’s page.

Know your child and trust in what you know. Thomas Edison’s story…

Take some time to read this story of Thomas Edison and his mother…


One day Thomas Edison came home and gave a paper to his mother. He told her, “My teacher gave this paper to me and told me to only give it to my mother.” His mother’s eyes were tearful as she read the letter out loud to her child: Your son is a genius. This school is too small for him and doesn’t have enough good teachers for training him. Please teach him yourself.


After many, many years, after Edison’s mother died and he was now one of the greatest inventors of the century, one day he was looking through old family things. Suddenly he saw a folded paper in the corner of a drawer in a desk. He took it and opened it up. On the paper was written: Your son is addled [mentally ill]. We won’t let him come to school anymore.


Edison cried for hours and then he wrote in his diary: “Thomas Alva Edison was an addled child that, by a hero mother, became the genius of the century.” 

Written by Christian Pälchen

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