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Supporting Christian singles on their path to finding a partner for life

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Amongst others, Fit for Family’s aim is to support you as pastors, teachers and youth leaders in your daily work with youth, families and Christian singles within your community and institutions.Worldwide, we believe there is a lack of support for Christian singles in our communities.

Many of the platforms which Christians turn to are fraught with risks, leaving trusting singles susceptible to exploitation.
Often costing a lot of money, users of these platforms share vast amounts of
personal and private information and photographs. This information leaves one open to being a target for those with ulterior motives.

Fit for Family has adopted a concept from the FEG in Zurich, a free church,
which for the last 20 years has been providing the service of bringing suitably matched Christians together and helping them find a partner for life.


This hugely successful concept has Christian singles meeting once a month, along with a speaker, to listen to interesting topics and move from table to table meeting other like-minded Christians with the same goal of meeting a Christian marriage partner.


We strongly encourage a similar concept at your institution, to open your
church once a month or to meet with other Churches looking to achieve similar outcomes.


We have carefully created the package to help you achieve this successful event which includes concept, promotional videos, posters, hand outs and pamphlets that you can use within your foundation to reach out to young Christian singles.
We also offer personalisation of these videos for a low fee through Malcolm Fitt: malcolm@opiamill.com


Our second product offering is that of a matching platform which, along with the video, can be purchased and integrated into your own website to support your community. It can be customized to suit you and your branding.
This product is not unlike a matching agency. It requires the answering of
questions, up to 120 in three categories, namely Faith, the most important with more than 60 questions, Daily life and Personality/Character.

http://devdemo.pro/matchingplatform/dev/


Each set of questions is unique in telling us more about yourself and what
you need from your future partner through yes or no questions, scales, no-go options, etc.


The user will be asked to submit an Mp3 recording of themself speaking a
line or two. The recording of their voice is just as important as their images in giving a rounded representation of themself.
Based on the outcome of these questions, a recommendation is made and the single can, from there, decide if the match is suitable to them or not.
If they find this to be a suitable match, only then will personal details be shared.


After a first meeting, a follow up is made to see how suitable they felt the
match was. They are not left on their own.
Safety is top priority with an integrated ID proofing system and domain SSL option. Apart from the administrator, private details remain as such – private!

Head over to fitforfamily.org to find out more and email us at info@fitforfamily.org to receive further details.

You determine the price! Our matching agency has a manufacturing price of over $ 50,000 including all working hours. Even a small sum of a few hundred dollars is a great help in driving down our manufacturing costs.

If you cannot raise any money at the moment, you will still receive the webpage, the first point is to support starting a family
and, if you would like the burden of hosting managed for you, we will put you in touch with our programmers, Datalogy Software who can provide this service at an affordable rate of $120 per year. They can do also following tasks for a church for 350 Euros.

  • Change logo and colors of matching test
  • Setup matching test with new logo and colors on server 3. Provide domain and hosting for 1 year
  • Answer any question they have by email. Besides that, you can get a special price at www.digiaccess.org to offer your webpage barrier- free.


The platform offers two means of functionality:


Fully Automated which includes 1 Admin, automated emails and the matching process without partner appearance proofing.

Partially Automated which includes the use of sub-admins to whom the work of proofing specific desired partner appearances is provided. The admin compares the photos of the match here to ensure that they match the desired appearance of the respective partner. For this reason, every user can upload stock photos that should help us what the future partner should look like.

The whole process is extremely simple. Only a host (as described above) and an admin – whose responsibility it is to answer questions and direct technical issues to the host – is necessary for this to function. However, much more customization can be made by uploading Bible verses, Christian jokes or new matching questions for example.


We also include our terms and conditions for you to use as a guide in creating your own Terms and Conditions however because this has been specifically constructed for the German market and for Fitforfamily, this must not be used verbatim.


Just as a side note, it is absolutely possible to have this page run in a language of your choice, so no matter where you are, this platform will work for you.


We highly recommend this as a new service for your church, whereby your
Churches in say, Dallas, LA, London or Sydney can work, with the support of Datalogy Software (the platform developers), with Churches in your area.

The platform is uncomplicated and inexpensive and no doubt a huge blessing for your Christian singles and we encourage you to actively take a look at this. Please Email us: info@fitforfamily.org


In addition to our singles products, Fitforfamily are extremely proud to also
offer additional platforms (without video and T’s & C’s) in the form of a
template, namely icsesp.org, which can be used to advertise Student Exchange and Study Programs and christiannonprofitconsulting.com which recognises the worldwide potential for companies, universities, students, graduates, specialists and senior specialists to help Christian non-profit organisations with their needs to get consulting for free from you.

For example, as an Evangelical Alliance

member, your Church could use the Consulting/Volunteers page along with its fundraising function and private loans request option or for yourself as a great NPO. The ICSESP page could be an attractive option for the Church Alliance or a large Education Company and their tribes.

Or even for ones courses at
College/University. Give it a thought! We ask you also here kindly for a donation. Each page has a value of around 50 000 dollars.


For detailed technical enquiries please contact Datalogy Software here – dtripathi@datalogysoftware.com


Thank you for your time and I pray that this will be the start of a worldwide
movement to support our Christian singles. May God bless you.

Your

Christian Pälchen


*Conditions apply, not transferable, single use only, Terms and Conditions are not included.

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Who Can Find a Virtuous Woman?

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Never was there a more crucial time for teen girls to know the answer to this question.

By Gareth Fraser • Feb. 21, 2018

“I would like to dedicate this book to the memory of my wife of 50 happy years, Loma Armstrong.” So wrote Mr. Armstrong in Mystery of the Ages. There is a lot of depth in that dedication statement. It reveals the kind of physical marriage and spiritual vision the Armstrongs possessed. Mrs. Armstrong strove to set an example of a virtuous woman to the girls and ladies of God’s Church.

Nearly 30 years after that book’s publishing, we live in a world where children oppress parents and women rule over men (Isaiah 3:12). The scourge of feminism, lesbianism, civil unions and perverted marriages are the new normal. Satan has been cast down and has worked to pervert God’s created roles in the divine institution of marriage (Revelation 12:12).

Anciently, King Solomon was inspired to ask a vital question. “Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies” (Proverbs 31:10). Never was there a more crucial time for teen girls to know the answer to this question.

Virtuous is defined as “having or showing high moral standards.” In the Hebrew language, it is rendered: “strength, power, might, ability, efficiency, wealth, force or army.” Ruby is “a precious stone, crimson, purple or pale rose color,” and cited as “jewels” in the Jewish tongue.

What a divine blessing of God to find a virtuous woman. In Proverbs 31:11-27, King Solomon documented the character traits of this lady of God.

He noted that her husband safely trusts her, and she seeks to do good to him. She seeks out bargains in décor and works within a budget to obtain healthy, nourishing foods for a balanced family diet. She gives sound input to her husband on financial decisions and works long hours caring for her husband and family. She seeks to help others with pure religion, serving the widows, elderly and orphans in the congregation.

This woman is active and exercises to produce good health. She prepares for all seasons of weather, sews, shops bargains, and works to clothe the family without debt. As a valued helpmeet, she points to her husband, rejoicing in his successes and example.

This virtuous woman is not lazy, rather seeking out avenues of how to sell items from home and make extra money to supplement the family needs. She loves being a homemaker, which keeps her busy, enriched and fulfilled.

This woman has a deep desire for spiritual strength and honor more than the physical, and she is known for speaking of God’s plan; she desires to obey His law of love.

“Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her” (Proverbs 31:28). You have the responsibility to happily respect, honor and speak highly of your mother (Exodus 20:12). In like manner, our fathers, as husbands of such a woman, are to seek opportunities not to flatter, but rather to praise her for jobs well done.

“Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the Lord, she shall be praised” (Proverbs 31:30). This is a lesson we all must learn well. Seek to please God more than flesh. If you do, God will reward you with good fruits.

King David rightly observed that this creation was fearfully and wonderfully made by God (Psalm 139:14). Satan, as the god of this world, has worked to portray the role of a woman as a burden, resulting in a society with far too many effeminate men and masculine women.

The first woman was made by God from the rib of man. The ribs form a protective cage around vital organs of the human body (Genesis 2:22). God saw the benefit of her role as a helpmeet for her husband (verse 18). This role is a type of the spiritual role of the royal affianced bride of Christ, the Church (Revelation 12:1). So God, through the pcg today, has revived the spiritually virtuous Bride of our Creator.

At the Philadelphia Church of God’s first Sabbath on Dec. 16, 1989, seven women made up the 12 total in attendance. Yes, the pcg began with more women than men! That statistic highlights how urgently the role of a virtuous woman needed to be revived in God’s Church. These women preferred the role God created for them to the trappings of makeup, inappropriate dress standards, and perceived independence. Thankfully, true womanhood is being revived today in the homes and families of congregations worldwide.

Who can find a virtuous woman?

God has shown us through His Word that there are such ladies today: They are right here in His true Church, and what a wonderful blessing they are from Him.

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Sexual Self-Pleasure

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The Bible says nothing about this topic. Some Christians take 1. Mose 38, 1-10 as an example, but her is a different topic. Onan interrupts the sex with his new wife (his brother died and he had to take care of the former wife of his brother and for progeny). This was against the law at this time.

But the Bible says something about sex with others and the danger to depend on something. I will come back to this topic later. Let us take a short view of self pleasure also in a wider perspective.

Hot bath, cuddle your own body, etc. are important for us and our development from the first days of our lives. We have to take care of ourself, do good things to ourself so that we are able to give something to others. At first I have to be ok and then I can give something away. That is not what God means with selfish thinking, it is a responsible bahaviour: taking care of our needs at first to build the foundation to give something to others.

You will find psychological information of the human development under this link:

https://www.simplypsychology.org/psychosexual.html

Back to the Bible:

Knowing oneself though exploring your own sexuality, the instincts are from God, checking (control) them but not letting them rule your life. In moderation like everything!

Non adultary: Drawings Fantasizing,

Pornography: dependency,  not in marriage, as a standard goal is missing! It should not be the main option to get sexual satisfied.Your partner has to be responsible for this.

Do not be dependent under your sexdrives: Who is Lord of my sex drives?

Christian Help for women and men: Ask your pastor or get in contact with an organization in your country like: http://livehope.org/about-us/

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